![]() Aside from spending the day with the bridesmaids and myself, I was just hoping for her help with handling tipping of vendors and maybe guiding vendors on some set up with our vision as floral/cake arrive. I don't particularly find Personal Attendant derogatory (it seems pretty traditional honestly), but I am worried at the number of people I've seen that feel that way. but it's a bit too late to make changes to the bridal party. We've continued to get closer and I would really like for her to be a part of the day in some capacity and enjoy the exciting parts of getting ready together, etc. But I felt it was possibly too soon/inappropriate to ask her to be in that role at the time. I have a friend from work, we call each other "work wife." We've worked with/known each other for around a year and half at our small company and if I had known her longer, I feel definitely would have been a bridesmaid. Hi! I am curious about the original post as well. I hope you all have beautiful weddings even you Judgemental Judy's in the bunch. As stated by others alot of this is dependent on your geographic location as to what the 'norm' is. And before yall start on your band wagon of whatever. We have a large wedding party and I love them all BUT its going to be a lot of moving pieces and I am going to need my friend to wrangle in my sanity for the day and be 'my girl'. I mean I am not looking to ask my friend to be my slave for the day. Flower Girl = Petal Princess, Ring Bearer = Ring Security, Personal Attendant I am unsure of yet but I will come up with something. I have tried to come up with different titles as well for a couple peeps. ![]() Thankfully Bailee, you seem like a strong person that isn't letting it get to you.īack on topic. We considered it as well until we realized some people might cheat the system and just go up to get drinks for anyone who wants one which really defeats the purpose.Īlot of you judgemental people are really ruthless and cruel. I think to give your bridal party free drinks while the rest of the guests pay is perfectly fine. Showers, Bachelorette, Dresses, Shoes, Tuxes, Hair, Makeup, Nails, all the bells and whistles for us ladies starts adding up whether the bride cares about the extras or not most women are going to spend TIME and money on all of these things. Your wedding party has paid alot of money to be a part of your wedding. Wedding Party drinks for free only? I see NOTHING wrong with this. Open Bar or No Bar? Nothing wrong with a cash bar. Sorry for all the backlash you are getting and shame on all the people calling into question about multiple off topic items. Bailee, I came here after a google search of this exact same question.
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